I Married the Wrong Person
I Married the Wrong Person
Very often I have a spouse come in after less than a year of marriage saying they married the wrong person. When dating, couples put their best foot forward and work hard to cover imperfections. It’s easy and common for them to show their best behaviors in the beginning of a relationship. “He was so attentive and caring”, “I got flowers every week at work”, “We took walks together and talked on the phone for hours”. After marriage, however, the imperfections each person tried so hard to hide when dating seem to come to the surface and the issues from childhood or previous relationships get exposed.
How can you and your spouse reconnect? Marriage counseling can help facilitate positive change in your relationship by addressing underlying issues impacting your marriage. In preparation for counseling, give thought to the following questions:
Are you showing your partner affection like you did when you first met?
Having fun is important. Find an activity you can enjoy together.
Have a date night every other week. This would be without the children.
Implement good communication skills
Weekend trips are great, if possible.
Go on dates with other couples.
BRING BACK THE ROMANCE
It’s natural in any relationship for the “newness” to give way to routine. Here are some tips to revitalize the romance in your relationship.
Are you showing your partner affection like you did when you first met?
Having fun is important. Find an activity you can enjoy together.
Have a date night every other week. This would be without the children.
Implement good communication skills
Weekend trips are great, if possible.
Go on dates with other couples.
FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE
Words of Affirmation can make a difference and lift one’s spirit.
There will always be ups and downs in any relationship. If you are going through difficult times right now, be encouraged that things can quickly take a turn for the better with some time and attention.
Remember why you married your spouse in the first place. Find 5 positive adjectives about your spouse and share them with him/her giving an example of each. Words of Affirmation can make a difference and lift one’s spirit.
WE’RE HERE TO HELP
If you are struggling in your relationship, we can help you bring back true intimacy and connection. Call us so you can have a plan for moving forward.
Call us at 941-444-7290
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